Relationships

5 Reasons Why You Glow Differently After a Nasty Breakup!

Has this happened with you too? Your ex, the person you dumped or who dumped you suddenly texts you that you look hotter and more attractive now. They wonder if you always looked like this and if they have made a mistake letting you go! Why does that happen you ask?

I have been thinking about this for obvious reasons during the past few days. Before I forget, I just want to put my two cents in.
Stick around to know what I think and let me know your take on this.

You Don’t Spend Weekends Getting Even!

There’s a reason why you broke up. Chances are you went through a phase of constant bickering before that. The screaming, pointing fingers, breaking stuff and sleepless nights take a toll on you. 

Once you stop doing that you start glowing differently. The stress that you’ve been under due to regular breakup and patch up has lifted and that makes you look better even though you still feel crappy.

Nobody Constantly Makes You Fell Less.

Chances are you’ve spent hours thinking of the backhanded compliment they’ve given you. The way you talk, eat, drink and walk has been constantly scrutinized. Now you’re finally in a place where you can look at the mirror without outside interference. 

You can see how beautiful you truly are.

You Stand by Yourself.

After all those sleepless nights fighting over small things and constantly feeling dismissed or micromanaged, you finally start spending days without any of it. It feels refreshing; painful yet peaceful. 

You start eating well, going for a run, joining the gym and they contribute to the glow that makes you look like a million dollars.

You Open up to Your Friends.

You were protecting your partner for years. You didn’t want your friends to think any less of him. So you lied more than you’ve lied your entire life. You couldn’t tell them what was eating you up. 

Now that it’s over and your friends were right all along, you can vent and let all those negative emotions be out in the air. 

You Feel Whole Again. 

If you were stuck in a toxic relationship, chances are you were manipulated and getting gaslighted on a regular basis. You worked so hard to keep everything together that you ended up losing yourself in the process. 

It wreaked havoc on your self-esteem and broke you into smithereens. Now that you’re free from it, you can breathe freely. 

Well, even though you might still be in terrible pain and cry yourself to sleep, you are walking toward a better life. For some people, the glow comes right after the breakup. For some, it takes time. But, as long as you keep one foot in front of the other and don’t end up going back to the person who broke you, you surely are healing and growing.

Zana

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